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Mackenzie's avatar

Relatable and beautiful Lauren xx

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Thank you so much lovely xxx

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Natalie Catherine's avatar

Oh I'm so right there with you Lauren and feeling all of the feels from the ground shifting (I just turned 43!! yikes!). Thank you for these deliciously beautiful words! I think Summer, just as you say, although enticing, can also feel expectant and anticipatory, and that translates to unconscious pressure, especially when nature is so alive. I'm also much more comfortable in the cooler months as the days draw in (definitely an introvert thing for sure). I'm so glad you're allowing yourself to sink into the gaps for a moment - me too xxx

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Thank you for reading lovely, I find it so fascinating how our inner seasons and outer seasons dance together. Xx

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Louise's avatar

Gorgeous writing Lauren, as ever 💞💫

There’s always beauty and magic to be found in the small moments. We just have to travel slowly enough to notice them (a hard task indeed!)

Solstice Blessings lovely ❤️❤️❤️

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Solstice blessings lovely one, thank you for reading and commenting, I definitely feel the pull to travel so much slower (which is sometimes a little challenging as an MG!!!) xxx

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Lauren Jane's avatar

Love this- the beauty in the small sometimes seemingly mundane moments. I feel more grounded having read it. Agree about feeling more at home in the downward spiral of autumn. And definitely pausing around solstice- not pushing in the heat- no thanks! Look forward to hear about the new idea you’re birthing. We are a similar age (I turned 42 in March) and I feel there are definitely common themes that come up in these years- especially for us millennials - picking stories apart from our 20s/30s 😵‍💫. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Thank you lovely, So glad you felt that grounding energy through the words. Yes I have been thinking a lot about this time and also the 7 year cycle as the last time I felt like I was in such a big transitional healing phase was late twenties, which is when I sold my old business and entered into the wellness world!!! So many stories to unravel… it feels a lot!!! Xxx

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Erin Taylor's avatar

So relatable Lauren, thanks for these reflections. So pleased you’ve found some space for yourself on your mat too xx

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Oh yes your practices are always exactly what I need. Thank you xxx

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Vix Maxwell's avatar

I love everything you write. This was so beautiful. I also resonated so deeply with the idea of these markers of the year as times to pause rather than force or push ourselves to do "whatever we're supposed to be doing!" on these days! Sending so much love your way. xx

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Thank you lovely, yes what a relief to be given these opportunities to pause for a little bit! What are we supposed to be doing?!? I still don’t know really! Ha! Grateful for you xxx

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Lyndsay Kaldor's avatar

I loved this Lauren, I was there with you and loved all of your observations of this time. It felt like such a deeply familiar experience of our summer after school afternoons, both the giggles and the shouting…! I am so glad that the pause reminder landed and feels helpful and I am so excited about how your dreams and path is unfolding one step at a time xx

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Thank you darling, I really needed the reminder you gave me clearly! So grateful for you xxx

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